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Post by stratlady on Jun 16, 2007 19:00:16 GMT
^^^lol I just did. These adds are so weird; they often relate whatever thread I am reading. I can't tell you how many time I saw one about counseling and psychologisy who listens to you for 0.99$/min. Or last time, there was one about music and rocking out.
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Post by mrbreathe on Jun 17, 2007 11:45:58 GMT
Oh yes i do!! But it ain't on this pagen, only page 6.
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Post by ilikeyou on Jun 18, 2007 17:46:54 GMT
Yea, i see it to. Anyway, i know a lot of gay people. My aunt is a lez, i have two gay and one lez cousins, and im friends with four gay guys my school. I think gay people are cool. All the ones that i know are really funny.
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Post by EvenInDeath46 on Jun 20, 2007 16:46:02 GMT
^ Wow, you have quite a few gay relatives. I only have one cousin that is gay out of my twenty-three cousins. My mother has a cousin that is gay and I guess I'm somehow related to him, but I don't think I've ever met him. He lives in Rhode Island. *Shrugs*
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Post by ilikeyou on Jun 21, 2007 20:16:07 GMT
Yea. Well, my lez aunt is my mom's sister. My mom told me that my aunt is a lez when i was 11. I akways wondered why there were women that i didn't even knoe at her house. My mom told me that they were just my lez aunt's friendz.
My lez cousin is from my father's side of the family. We were like best friends when we were little, but now things have changed. She is going to be a Junior in college now.
My first gay cousin has always been gay. He's from my mother's side of the family. We were like best friends too like my lez cousin, but things have changed. I always knew he was weird. He did act feminine a lot, but I always thought that he and his sexual jokes was funny. I dont find his personality flattering anymore. He always makes fun of people based on their physical appearances. In all honesty, people should be making fun of him for his homosexuality. I mean, it's so obvious that he's gay, but people just dont say it around him. I find his personality really annoying now.
My second gay cousin is also from my mother's side of the family. He used to be kewl, but now he's like so EMO it's not even funny. He always wears blacks, has black fingernail polish, black hair, wears REALLY TIGHT CLOTHES! I wish he would just stop being a gay emo and slit his wrists and die from blood loss already.
The four gay guys from my school are my best friends now. I dont really like my gay relatives anymore. The four guys are all obviously gay, like seriously. They talk about guy parts and talk about their sexual experiences with each other all the time. None of them are virgins! LOL! They have cutouts from gay magazines taped to the inisde of their lockers. One of my gay friends even has a sticker in his locker that says "I LUV MY PENIS!<3". They're all really funny and have no problem with everyone knowing that they are gay. Even all the teachers know about it.
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Post by EvenInDeath46 on Jun 21, 2007 23:04:19 GMT
^ Wow. The person that you described as your "first gay cousin" is exactly like my gay cousin. We used to play with each other all the time when we were younger. He has always acted feminine, told weird and sexual jokes that were funny at the time, and he made fun of people's physical appearences too. In recent years I began to find his personality annoying, since he was not acting maturely like I was. We weren't kids anymore, we were teenagers. Then he revealed to me that he's bisexual and admitted that it was true, but that's not all. He also told me that he had gay sex. I was shocked and little bit disgusted, not that I have a problem with people being gay. He should have kept his sexual experiences private. I said that I found that to be kind of disgusting, especially since he was only fourteen at the time and he made it seem like his gay sex experience was a "one night stand" kind of deal. So, I thought that was disgusting because he was unable to control his most carnal impulses and acted like an animal. Then he went through this whole "thing" where he told me that it was a joke and that I was so gullible for believing in something so stupid. I said that I didn't believe him because all of his stories didn't match up and it doesn't fit his personality to let someone think that he's gay, even for a second. He always had a "fruity" personality and people would say things like "you're gay" to him, but he would always deny it. Also, whenever we watched a show on TV or a movie where there was a scene with a shirtless man, he would either block the screen with his hands, cover his eyes, or turn his head in the other direction saying "ewe, that's gross." One time I found a link to gay porn site saved under his Favorites on his user account and he panicked, said "ewe, that's gross," blamed his sister for saving the link, and deleted it. Get the point? Anyways, after I told him that I still believed his gay sex story, he became really angry. He shunned me out of his life and blamed me for his anger. I didn't do anything wrong. He just couldn't admit that he had gay sex and actually told someone else about it. I wasn't being mean to him or anything like he thought I was. He was the one that was being mean to me. He stopped calling me on the telephone. A few weeks later, it was Thanksgiving and all of the relatives were going to my aunt's house, including my cousin. I was still angry about all of the accusations that he made towards me, like I was a liar, for example. Then, I did something bad. Unfortunately, I stooped down to his level. I told almost half of my other cousins that he told me that he is bisexual and that he had sex with another boy. I told all of them to keep it a secret, but someone must have squeeled. He found out about it and this must have made his thoughts about me worsen. To him, it must have seemed like all I did was wrong, wrong, wrong, while he was always right, pure, and innocent and did nothing wrong towards me first at all. That's a load of bull shit, I tell you. The remainder of that Thanksgiving involved me hanging out with one of my other cousins or listening to music on the computer. He avoided me the whole time and just played with all the little kids. He even played with this electronic toy called 20 Q and the toy guessed his thought after a series of twenty questions, poop. How immature. After my family arrived back to our house, my mother asked why I didn't hang out with him. A smirk formed on my face. I asked her, "Have you ever thought that he acts kind of strange, weird, or maybe even a little bit queer... hmmm?". She answered me with a no. I told her that he's gay and had gay sex. She still didn't believe me when I asked her if she thought her nephew is gay. My mother knew we had a fight via the internet and said that I should write him a letter and apologize. I sent him the lyrics to "Forgive Me" by Evanescence instead and he decided to forgive me. I told him that I knew that I was wrong, but I only acted the way I did because he acted cruelly towards me first. He admitted that he was wrong too and wanted to be friends again. I told him that I told my mother that he's gay and had gay sex, because she asked me for the real reason why weren't hanging out with each other during Thanksgiving. He told me to tell my mother that it was just a joke and not true, because he felt that my mother wouldn't look at him in the same way that she used to. I assured him that my mother could care less, but I would tell her that it was a joke to undo the damage. So I told her that it was all a joke but, in all honesty, he did actually admit that he is bisexual. She didn't believe that he is bisexual. She thought that he was too young to even know what it is to be bisexual. The damage was undone, but still I felt like I hadn't been told the whole truth. I asked him to be honest and tell if he did actually have sex with another boy. He denied it like before and said that he is still a virgin. I assured him that I believed him to make feel at ease, but in the back of my mind I still thought his sex story was true. Eventually, over time, he gave in and told me that not only is he gay rather than bisexual, but he had a boyfriend and had sex with him too, three times. I wasn't surprised, but appreciated his honesty. I had no idea that he had a boyfriend, but he said that his mother was suspicious of having his boyfriend over at the house when he was home alone. I told him that he should call me on the telephone like he used to, but he didn't want to. At the Christmas Eve party one of my aunts threw at her house, I tried to be with him. He just avoided me and ignored everything I said around him, even if I said it directly to him. After the party I contacted him and asked why he hadn't hung out with me to mend our friendship like we planned. He said that he felt weird and was intimidated by my presence. He felt that whenever I would talk to him, the only thing I would be thinking about is his homosexuality. He thought that I wouldn't look at him or treat him in the same way I once did. I assured him that the next time we would see each other, he would not have to worry. The next time I would see him was in May of 2007. Over the months before I would see him again in person, he revealed to me details about his secret love for his boyfriend and why he is now his ex-boyfriend. Basically, his boyfriend's parents got divorced and his boyfriend moved to live with his mother in New York or Pennsylvania. The mother of the boyfriend somehow knew about their relationship and hated my cousin. In return, my cousin hated her too. The two of them were separated from each other against their own will. Anyways, in May was the celebration of two of my cousins' Confirmation. At the party I tried to hang out with my cousin, but I just found him to be annoying again. He just hung out with all the little kids again and tanned in the sunshine on a beach chair in his backyard. After the party, I felt that the "plan" to mend our friendship had failed, once again. He said that he tried to hang out with me, but it was my fault. I admitted that was true, beacuse I just found him to be annoying. It was exactly the opposite of the Chritmas Eve party. Instead of him avoiding me, it was me avoiding him. Another party came up in May a few weeks later, the Memorial Day Weekend Barbeque. At that party I was finishing reading a novel to write an English essay about and hung out with other cousins. I just found him to be annoying at this party, just like the other. I had a really good time though. I played a board game called Cranium and it was a blast! So, at party settings I've just been finding it to be difficult to play with him and run around like a little kid lately. My aunt (his mother) said that she missed seeing me after so many months and would like me to sleep over at their house again. I just don't know if I can go through with it being that I just don't find my cousin to be fun anymore. Maybe I could have fun with him if it was just me with him instead of a bunch of people and screaming children in a party setting? I do remember being a bit jealous when his other friends were with us when I was younger. I sort of miss the sleepovers too and, perhaps, I could consider sleeping over at their house again, for old time's sake. His family doesn't know that he is gay, only bisexual (I think?). Maybe a sleepover or going camping with him in New York this summer will mend our friendship once and for all? Until then, I have a busy summer vacation ahead of me. ~EvenInDeath46
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Post by MissKitty on Jul 1, 2007 22:32:14 GMT
Hello everybody, look who just popped in for a visit....
-finds some posts quite disturbing and just plain rude and desides to walk away-
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Post by snezzy on Jul 9, 2007 20:10:40 GMT
Hey there MissKitty-thang ~.^
Logn time no see everybody!
[glow=red]EvenInDeath46[/glow] - I hope you and your cousin get along better soon, it just sounds like he's having a really hard time coming to terms with himself.
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Post by mrbreathe on Jul 20, 2007 15:58:27 GMT
My first gay cousin has always been gay. He's from my mother's side of the family. We were like best friends too like my lez cousin, but things have changed. I always knew he was weird. He did act feminine a lot, but I always thought that he and his sexual jokes was funny. I dont find his personality flattering anymore. He always makes fun of people based on their physical appearances. In all honesty, people should be making fun of him for his homosexuality. I mean, it's so obvious that he's gay, but people just dont say it around him. I find his personality really annoying now. Why should your cousin be bullied becasue of his sexuality? Is it his fault that he's gay? I know it's not nice for someone to be able to bully someone, but why do you think your cousin deserves to be ripped jsut for not being the same sexuality as you? And again, why should someone be hurt just because they are different? A lot of people could be offended by your posts in here. So you don't want him to be a GAY emo anymore, jsut a straight one? Get over youself!
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Post by Robynn on Jul 20, 2007 18:30:18 GMT
don't get too mad....they're never hear any more. and I really don't think they meant to offend or piss anyone off. chill and relax. don't allow other people to control your emotions.
breathe!
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Post by mrbreathe on Jul 20, 2007 21:33:19 GMT
Ha! My name lol, got he little joke thing.. Yeah, i should calm down a bit, i don't know why, but since i've started coming out to people, i seem to want to respect people's sexuality more.
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Post by MissKitty on Jul 21, 2007 0:01:45 GMT
Im just waiting for the day when I can go out to a club and feel like I can fit in and just go up to someone and ask them if they wanna have a drink or something....
Ya, Im strange, but I just have to feel like I can be myself, and not be someone else and that I can be in a stable relationship....If ya know what I mean.....
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Post by ilikeyou on Aug 24, 2007 19:34:38 GMT
Sorry, i didn't mean to offend anyone here. I just can't stand my cousins! there so GAY!!!!!!!!!!!! And I mean that in bad way, not like homosexual "gay," even tho ther gay in real life anyways. Sorry, sorry, sorry!
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Post by unicorn07 on Aug 24, 2007 22:16:22 GMT
^Just a tip, you should NEVER use the word gay in that way. I haven't the foggiest idea how the whole 'that is so gay' or 'your so gay' became a way of bashing people but its rude, not only to the person your calling gay but its offensive to gays as well...because well your using it as a negative, and there is nothing wrong with being Gay.
Hope that made sense!
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Post by MissKitty on Aug 26, 2007 2:20:13 GMT
Ehhh, you see, thats what got to me, but ANYHOW I am just gonna shut up and crawl into my hole...Where I belong and no one can hurt me anymore....
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