Post by simon on May 14, 2008 14:22:49 GMT
Below are a few things I feel need to be said. Good Or Bad, I simply cannot sit back and not say them anymore.
Dear Tara,
I've followed your story for so long now I deeply feel it is my own as well. As well as many of the stories that I read and become part of on this very board. The Board which we met on, And One that has grown so much a part of my life (And Juss's) i cannot imagine life without it.
I've watched your journey from a sweet, but slightly messed up kid, to now a very angry young adult. I'd be lying if i said i was happy with the way you have gone.
Once you were someone I was proud to call a friend, You helped Juss, and sent gifts to Emma, We referred to you as her big sister Tara, We believed in supported you and loved you.
As did all the people here, Robynn,Mary, Keely and everybody else has done nothing but support you and try to help you. they like me have watched your posts get increasingly rude, one sided and just completly.. well not you, Honestly I'm scared for you.
Life is hard, and alot of times it sucks. I'm sorry that you lose the things you love, But I lost my wife months ago. She'll never be the same, and now that she's woken up, she remembers nothing of the past year, None of the surgeries, none of the fights, No "allison" Emails, No Luke Killing Himself, None of Emma's first words, Or even her first steps. She may never get that back, She may never walk, One infection can, will most probably kill her. I understand your worried, But comparing the life of your cat, to my wife, really pissed me off. I Know how much you animals mean to you and I am not doubting that you were devestated about the death, of your Cat. But Cats Get run over, and Dogs Die, Fish Die, That's life when you have pets. I just don't think you grasp that concept entirely. And what proof do you have that it was Murder as you put it and now an accident??
But Honestly declaring revenge and murder, to avenge a cats unfortunate death and then justifying it by saying you cat would have wanted it, Scares the shit out of me. If You were my child, my girlfriend, I would have you in therepy very quickly.
Your posts have gotten increasingly disturbing and Quite Frankly I am not happy to call you my friend anymore unless you do something about this.
You have a history of mental illness, you've cut yourself before, maybe just maybe it's time to put a stop to it. Take control of your life and especially your mental health.
I Plead to you as Your friend, And as Jussie's Husband. take control, watch your mouth, and wake up to yourself! People Love you and care for you and you are pushing them away.
-Simon
Okay Just something I want to add, I don't want this to turn into a "pick on tara" thread. More like an intervention of sorts k?
Dear Tara,
I've followed your story for so long now I deeply feel it is my own as well. As well as many of the stories that I read and become part of on this very board. The Board which we met on, And One that has grown so much a part of my life (And Juss's) i cannot imagine life without it.
I've watched your journey from a sweet, but slightly messed up kid, to now a very angry young adult. I'd be lying if i said i was happy with the way you have gone.
Once you were someone I was proud to call a friend, You helped Juss, and sent gifts to Emma, We referred to you as her big sister Tara, We believed in supported you and loved you.
As did all the people here, Robynn,Mary, Keely and everybody else has done nothing but support you and try to help you. they like me have watched your posts get increasingly rude, one sided and just completly.. well not you, Honestly I'm scared for you.
Life is hard, and alot of times it sucks. I'm sorry that you lose the things you love, But I lost my wife months ago. She'll never be the same, and now that she's woken up, she remembers nothing of the past year, None of the surgeries, none of the fights, No "allison" Emails, No Luke Killing Himself, None of Emma's first words, Or even her first steps. She may never get that back, She may never walk, One infection can, will most probably kill her. I understand your worried, But comparing the life of your cat, to my wife, really pissed me off. I Know how much you animals mean to you and I am not doubting that you were devestated about the death, of your Cat. But Cats Get run over, and Dogs Die, Fish Die, That's life when you have pets. I just don't think you grasp that concept entirely. And what proof do you have that it was Murder as you put it and now an accident??
But Honestly declaring revenge and murder, to avenge a cats unfortunate death and then justifying it by saying you cat would have wanted it, Scares the shit out of me. If You were my child, my girlfriend, I would have you in therepy very quickly.
Your posts have gotten increasingly disturbing and Quite Frankly I am not happy to call you my friend anymore unless you do something about this.
You have a history of mental illness, you've cut yourself before, maybe just maybe it's time to put a stop to it. Take control of your life and especially your mental health.
I Plead to you as Your friend, And as Jussie's Husband. take control, watch your mouth, and wake up to yourself! People Love you and care for you and you are pushing them away.
-Simon
Okay Just something I want to add, I don't want this to turn into a "pick on tara" thread. More like an intervention of sorts k?
Why dont you all get up off your ass's, come all the way down here and just TRY to actually give a damn....At least I have a life